~} Moon... {~

~~Shooting for the Moon~~

Just received a very very wonderful card from tinkerbell. Its got this wonderful silver border and the effort is very much appreciated by me. Arigato!
I read in a blog that in a r/s, it is how u feel for the person that matters, not whether it is your first or 2nd or 999th. I agree alot. My 1st r/s sucked. Well, its not the girl's fault, perhaps more of her dysfucntional family. Until I met JL, I had never thought I could have met a ?love? more fierce nor a liking so strong. It doesbn't matter if ppl said she ain't pretty, it doesn't matter if they said she is hurting me, what mattered was whether she loves me.
Its the emotions sunk into a r/s that keeps it burning.
That said, the logical part of me thinks that if the sadness outweighs the happiness, there is not much point in hanging on is there? Granted a great amount of effort has been put in by you, but if he/she doesn't treasure it, then.. Why be the one who gets hurt?
The advice I can give is "Treasure who is with you now, for only with the present can happiness be built. The past can provide memories and experience, but it is only the present that can affect the future decisively. It is hard to let go, and the person beside you must be very patient. If you have experienced a heartache and somehow, a person like this is beside you, its really another chance."
I have met such a ger after JL, she was everything a guy would want. Patient, cultured, pretty and understanding. But the feelings I guess wasn't ripe, and hence it amounted to nothing in the end.
If there is someone who is waiting for you, and is someone u feel something for, be brave. Even if you do not choose that person in the end, he or she will be happy as long as you are. That's love.

~} Moonshine